So far we have been asked these two questions the most: 1)Why are we adopting an internationally and 2)why a sibling group?
In a nutshell, we feel called.
Also, we did some research about what life is like for children who live in Eastern Europe if they are not adopted. It's not pretty- it mostly ends in drugs, prostitution and premature death.
If we can make a difference, then what a humbling opportunity.
Many countries are closed to international adoptions and those that are open have extensive requirements- BMI's below certain levels, no drug involvement, no guns, all medication locked up, certain amount of income, etc....
We have been blessed- and we will have to give an account of what we have done with our blessings. Having fancy cabinets, a paved driveway, fancy vacations, spiffy new clothes= not how I want to explain to my Lord and Savior how I invested what He gave us. There is nothing wrong with those things- but for us, now, we feel the importance of helping others- specifically children who need homes. Someday I will need new cabinets- but now, I need children.
At this point, we haven't been approved for two children, but we feel it's important to apply for two. We have room in our hearts- Addie and Alden both really want their "own" sibling- and we have room in our home. After it's all said and done, we may only be adding one child- it's all in God's hands.
It's going to be an adventure- we are scared and excited but mostly excited!
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